He might have experimented with a man at some point if only to see what reflected him in a light he liked. KWIM?
You really hit the nail on the head with that one. So much of my 2bx's concerns with my appearance had to do with "how I made him look" or some other kind of not really sexual vibe. This attitude just made me resent whoever this theoretical audience was that he was concerning himself with. It always seemed to me like there was some other man he was trying to impress and it was my job to help him look good for this man in many different ways. The problem was that I really didn't give a f*ck what this man thought because as far as I was concerned I was already as good as or better than this man and didn't want to waste my time on this planet trying to impress him.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
