I don't know how to figure what your DH is doing. His response to you is so opposite to where my H is right now ... From my perspective, it seems like yours is either wanting to begin to take everything to the next level and restart the courting process - or he's wanting to lull you into letting him stay with what he's got going now. I'm really clueless ... sorry.
Today I'm trying to hold onto my wits. With the IC yesterday, I know that I'm emotionally vulnerable, and I risk pursuing H for some emotional connection. WHICH I know I will not get!
SO, I'm trying to stay alert and if the boys have their concert tonight (they are both playing in the municipal band, but the concert might be cancelled b/c of rain), I'm going to try to be aware and not give in to breaking my current run of distancing.
Think of me and send me warm wishes, please. I'm going to protect my heart today!
