Hey Andyv how you be?

I think you are doing great. I also think you may have found a weak spot in your W. Ya see the way I look at it is our S knows they can trust us. WE HAVE MORALS. But that also is a down fall because they feel too secure. They don’t worry about losing us no mater what they do.
I think the W BF is showing your W that 1. You are GAL and 2. Other women ARE attracted to you.
As for painting your face blue…. Well one thing I found is that being married for 16yrs I have become too conservative. I went to work came home. The W knows what to expect from me (you). IF painting your face is something the crowd does there GO FOR IT. Think about how shocked your W will be. How the NEW you is starting to show. Of course if you are the only one with a blue face then she may think you jumped off the deep end.
Play nice, but we have to give the W’s a little less security. They think that we will sit on the bench and be happy. We got ta let the coach know “hey ya don’t put me in I’ll go to another team” Or ya can sit on the bench and be happy being the water boy.
Ya sound better today maybe my MOJO made it.

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know