Okay.....tonight was the strangest meeting of them all. I just don't even know where to begin.
Started dinner with the usual how are you doing. XW mentions how a cousin that she used to babysit for just graduated high school. Makes comment of how time flys and how she is going to turn 33 in a few months and that she somewhat feels like a failure for not having kids and is going through a kind of early mid life crisis (something that I have realized for quite a while now and have blamed for the D). I didn't respond.
Eventually goes into how she was on a trip and a co woker got drunk and tried to pick her up and that has been the only person that has tried to hit on her since. Was elaborate story that I won't bore anyone with.
Later on as we are getting ready to leave, mentions how her best friend's kid is going to kindergarden in the fall and again mentions that she is turing 33 and no kids and doesn't have a life.
So, I asked her to see a movie next weekend. She likes the Oceans series, I know she won't go and none of my friends will go see it so thought I would ask. She responds with, "lets play it by ear. You might have someone that you would like to take on a date to see it". Again, tell her that I am off the market and that I would like to take her. Again, lets play it by ear.
So I gave her a hug, kissed her cheek goodbye and we parted.
I am trying to let her know that the door is open, I believe she is trying to feel me out on where I am at. Am I crazy for thinking that? Maybe she is not sure and taking me asking her out as a bigger question of "should be try again?"
Who knows?!
CIAZ M 7/97 S 5/05 D 8/06 Both 33 years old No kids