WAW,

I don't think there is anyone on this board that doesn't have a snooping problem.

Trust me, once you stop reading her emails, you will feel a whole much better, and your attitude will change (and W will notice). It may take a while for our W's too let go of the OM (if at all), so there is no point in worrying about it in the short term, just worry about yourself and make yourself a better proposition than him.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."