However, I did spy on his private porn habits at one low point in my existence and found zero evidence for any male body object orientation. Plus, despite all his complaints about my physical being, I could tell that he was erotically object-oriented towards me during sex. Also, my sister dated a man for a while who came out later and she knew somebody else this happened to too. She said that the sexual pattern of behavior with a guy who is really gay is that they can be very loving and touching and sensual and they don't generally or initially have ED but they lose their erection easily throughout any erotic interaction with a woman. My 2bx never had erectile dysfunctions.
I bow to your superior knowledge of him and the subject matter. But there's something odd there I can't quite put my finger on.
Or perhaps what irritates me is just a myriad of tiny little echoes in a vast empty chamber. Occam's razor, and all that.