I agree with Matilda re photo. You are heading in the right direction. But also expect a few more ups and downs. From what I have been reading (success stories), the roller coaster starts to become interesting right about now (your sitch).
So keep doing what you are doing, don't ever think about OM or phone records, don't take any mood swings personally etc etc
Buddy, you are doing an amazing job, and I need you to keep doing it for my PMA, along with the rest of us. We are drawing all the positives from your sitch.
Hopefully I haven't put you under too much pressure
Also, chocolates are a good gift. When I saw my W looking trim, taught and terrific I started to stock up DD's pantry full of all their favourite chocolates and potato chips (my wife has no will power around these things).
I know it sounds nasty, but I am having trouble stocking up quicker than W can eat them. And I think she may have gained a few pounds............I know, I am a naughty boy.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."