Hummmm did you lift that conversation out of some DBing book?
Theo, you truly are a charmer...
Actually, if we all lived closer I think it would be blast to take a big group of the DBing women out shopping (Abercrombie and Victoria's Secret!), getting makeovers and then going out for Chocolate Martinis and a bit of guy watching (hey, even though I'm in piecing I can still be sort of a "big sister" just kind of overseeing things!!!!).
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.