If anybody is out there reading, I guess I am a good example of what not to do. This afternoon I am wishing that I had the strength to continue the fight. I have so many mixed feelings right now. This morning I was reacting to somethings my family had said. They want me to get over the hurt of this and be done. I was also reacting to my H's inability to work on our M. I have such trouble trying to understand this. I guess I will just wait to see if he files anything. How can he say he is still IN LOVE with me and not want to work on this. A friend of my H's (the one he is staying with now), who was in an extremely volitile (somewhat physically abusive on the W's part) relationship, was having a lot continual of problems with his W. He said he loved her and that is why he kept going back. I told him that sometimes love isn't enough...ironic huh?
This afternoon I am wishing that I had the strength to continue the fight. I have so many mixed feelings right now. This morning I was reacting to somethings my family had said. They want me to get over the hurt of this and be done. I was also reacting to my H's inability to work on our M. I have such trouble trying to understand this. I guess I will just wait to see if he files anything. How can he say he is still IN LOVE with me and not want to work on this. A friend of my H's (the one he is staying with now), who was in an extremely volitile (somewhat physically abusive on the W's part) relationship, was having a lot continual of problems with his W. He said he loved her and that is why he kept going back. I told him that sometimes love isn't enough...ironic huh?
