You think that postcard pissed you off. Just wait for the day when he starts asking your kids to lend him money.
Well, word is he's living off his older sister at the moment which means that he is really living off her wealthy third husband. I think I might have mentioned that my 2bxFIL offered to rent me a house he owns at cost. It was hilarious (to me) to witness his reaction when I turned down his offer. I may not come out of this mess with my FICO intact but at least I'll still have my stubborn pride and rose-colored glasses. Better naked in the cabbage patch than strait-jacketed in the rose garden.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver