think small, start with small changes you will feel better and then be able to handle the larger issues. It will take time but hun, you are going to be living this time anyway right? might as well make it productive. Think about this also, By helping yourself you are better able to help your H and son. There is one small thing in the pit of your stomach that will tell you where to start. do you fell that? start there. You can do this
lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12