COG the more information you post about your W the more I see my former self reflected in her. The day you posted that your D was busted after 4 years I had logged into the site to say I wouldn't be visiting anymore and was going to tell my H that he could have the D he so desparately wanted (and still does apparently). I keep posting on various threads that I'm finding it hard to keep my faith b/c I don't feel God is listening to me. However, given what I have just posted and given that by reading about your W I can I am beginning to see what my part in my M breakdown was I'm beginning to wonder if directing me to your posts is HIS way of saying 'I am listening are you?'
Thank you
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15