I must have missed that debate. You're talking to a guy who would like to share a snowball from his wife, so what do you think. My wife enjoys it, I have made her orgasm from it. She just never "WANTS" it.
I actually think I would probably really like your wife if I met her. She sounds like about the most mellow woman alive.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I find that I'm generally having a harder time figuring out what position I am trying to fill than rounding up candidates. I think dating me would be very confusing simply because I am so confused.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
My loves, I'm a mile high and probably 3 fries short of a happy meal. So, if you hate me, please know that I'm sleeping in a tent and remember I'm allergic to EVERYTHING. Also, it's hailing.
However, if you love me, please think - mens sana corpre sonor- and maybe it will come true for me! (Yes, I carry my dictionary wherever I go.)
I hope all is well, in any case. Believe it or not, I can't wait to see you again.
Will someone please tell me why this made me so very angry? Then will somebody tell me why except for the anger concerning his relationship with the kids I have no feeling whatsoever for my 2bx? If I try to feel anything for or about him, it's like there is this layer of numb muscle I can't move through (I actually sort of visualize it when I think about him)or like I'm half asleep underwater and can't hear or understand him or focus on what he is trying to convey.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
MoJo wrote: "Will someone please tell me why this made me so very angry? "
Translation: "Don't hate me because I am once again showing my ass for all the world to see, please feel sorry for me instead because I am sleeping in a tent in the hail while making myself an ass for all the world to see, oh, and by the way, this is all your mother's fault."
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
Wait, on his travels that take him into a tent in someone's backyard, out of all his worldly posessions, the thing he takes with him into that tent is his dictionary?
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
Okay I was mad after reading that postcard. I need to get read for a meeting but felt compelled to let you know that I believe anger is perfectly appropriate for that postcard.
I am angry that a supposedly full grown man is still utterly a complete child. And on top of that this manchild is passively aggressively begging for love and sympathy from his children. The only reason he is sleeping in a tent on someone's lawn is because he has chosen to not work and to not take care of himself. Why should anyone feel sorry for someone for their own ADULT choices?
What an appalling father figure for your kids. There is no way for this type of behavior to NOT have an effect on your kids. ! would seriously consider having them meet with a therapist to discuss this very communication!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
Translation: "Don't hate me because I am once again showing my ass for all the world to see, please feel sorry for me instead because I am sleeping in a tent in the hail while making myself an ass for all the world to see, oh, and by the way, this is all your mother's fault."
LOL- Thanks, NOP. Of course it's my fault. You can't be at fault if you don't accept any responsibility.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
He's acutally kind of funny in a 15 year old sort of a way. Nothing like a twisted Latin phrase as the way to my heart. *grin*
He definitely has always had that "I'm a charming 3 year old who just did something bad but you know you can't get mad at me because I'm so cute and helpless" thing working for him. Of course, he also has the "I'm a 3 year old who will whine continuously and sulk in the corner until you give me attention" thing too. Unfortunately for me, both of these used to work on me. Now the first makes me want to puke and the second makes me think that infanticide might be a good option if the infant who behaves that way is 43.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
What an appalling father figure for your kids. There is no way for this type of behavior to NOT have an effect on your kids.
When we were still having an amicable divorce, my 2bx said something to me like "Of course, you did all the work with the kids but I would like to think that I helped a little." Fact is, my kids have always come to me for pretty much everything. I'm way to wimpy to be a "rock" type parent for them but they do take me for granted in the way I think kids should. I spoke with my S18 about the postcard a bit today. He just said something like "Well, Dad's always had a talent for self-deprecation." They're actually at sort of good ages to deal with this type of thing being highly self-involved teenagers. I would say they both basically ignored his plea for sympathy with an adolescent attitude of "Whatever."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
