B4S, I never thought W would use the boys either. OC, I never thought I'd be here in the first place. But yes, that has become W new tactic and it's killing me. W has always been good at pointing blame, or making accusations at other people, mainly me. W was also great @ playing the martyr card. Yet, she is the one who is usually guilty of the accusations. W would always tell me she was afraid I was going to leave her no matter how committed I told her I was. But she's the one leaving. W keeps telling her L and C that she's afraid of me. . . that I'm going to harm her. She's the one who has attacked me on several occasions. I've never touched her. Only tried to restrain her when she's attacked me. She would accuse me of intending on being cruel and hurtful during the D. She's the one who has used the kids to manipulate. W accused me and my Ps of trying to turn Ss against her by spoiling them. Nothing has changed in my R or my Ps R w/ Ss from now to before all of this crap. Yet she's going out right now and buying them toys and gifts that she was always against before or would be upset if I brought them up. (i.e. another PS2 for S8. The really funny part is she doesn't even have a TV in her apt. yet ). The really ironic and sad part, she has no furniture in the apt except her futon bed, bunk beds for the boys and a used folding table for a kitchen table. No chairs, no sofa. When she moved out of our house she raided the freezer and fridge for food. The cabinets for TP and cleaning supplies. She wonders why I would sometimes say her priorities were a little mixed up.
). The really ironic and sad part, she has no furniture in the apt except her futon bed, bunk beds for the boys and a used folding table for a kitchen table. No chairs, no sofa. When she moved out of our house she raided the freezer and fridge for food. The cabinets for TP and cleaning supplies. She wonders why I would sometimes say her priorities were a little mixed up. 
