Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[theoden]

DB women are the hottest!!!!

Boom-chaka-laka-boom.

Hey HB....he's afraid of being in a loveless marriage. he's afraid that in 3/4 years this will repeat.

Oh yeah....poor baby...doesn't want to have his "needs" not met.

Yeah...well grow up Mr. Can't keep his d%ck in his pants!!!!

You don't want that either, do you? A loveless marriage, a repeat of this living hell?

Please.....


I'm going to barf right now.

--theoden

[Heartbroken]

Thanks Theo - ever so charming as you can be!

Good to hear from you. Just checkin' in for my PM review! I have been reading 'The Power of NOW' and it seems to be helping me stay in the Present Moment - or helps me get back there when I start feeling sad.

For being separated we still are seeing each other daily due to hectic kids schedules - tonight will be the first night we will not see each other. I have the kids this weekend so H should not be around (except to cut the grass Friday - ugh - how can he miss us when he is always with us????).... Out of my control - just have to let it go where it will go... Slept 6 straight hours without any sleeping pill and then fell back to sleep for another 2.5 or so!!! YEAH!

Worked out today (got my butt into size 4 gap jeans WOW and I want to keep it there) and the detaching is finally kicking in!

PMA HB!!

[Delil@h]

(got my butt into size 4 gap jeans WOW and I want to keep it there)

FABULOUS!!!! KEEP working on you and on the "HOT MAMA" BIT....

MY H said whenever he saw me he tried to resist but couldn't!
Not over the top.. just in your face "I am fine.." type of mentality... he'll notice!
You are doing just great keep it up!
GOD bless....

[Aud31]

You're sounding better HB--way to find things to help you feel stronger! Just wanted to send some rah-rahs your way--you deserve them!

[runningoutoftime]

Theo,
You are TOO funny!!! I think DBing dads are the most attractive men ever. Your wives are crazy and I think all of us DBing women would agree.

Heartbroken,
You are a definite HOTTIE in those size 4 jeans!!!! Don't it feel great? I'm a size 3 and absolutely love it. I feel so much healthier, and I've been able to stay at this size for a year now so it's habit. Looking good helps the PMA. Keep up the great work!

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Join now!!!! All women on this site invited.
DBing Hottie Mamas Club

[theoden]

HB,

My pleasure. Gotta laugh don't we?

Just go back to Last Resort Technique...and be rigorous about it. Hard core. Try it for two weeks. It applies so much in your situation. No text messsging, no cute things, no I love you, etc. And don't go running like a Labrador Retriever to him when he throws you once measly crumb of affection. Look hot and steamy, be mysterious, get him all bubbling hot and interested. But don't show excitement as his presence, in fact, be aloof.

Maybe the conversation would go like this....

"Oh, hi, Mr. Can't Keep His D*ck in His Pants. How are you? Gee...you look kind of depressed. Wonder why? Lost your wife and children...yeah...life's a b%tch. Hmmm...may I reccommend a couple of things? Lets see...First, grow a sac. Second,grow a conscience. Oh hey...gotta go. I'm taking a Kung-Fu class. My instructor, Sifu Long Dong, he thinks my "Chi" is really flowing. Yeah, he's giving me private lessons. We are learning a new fighting technique called "sticky hands". See ya later, Bye."

Let go of the screaming cat. Then start eating a tuna fish sandwich...which tastes sooooooo good.

Working out, getting your butt in size 4 jeans....hmmmmmm.

You'll certainly keep the guys checking in on your sitch. ;-)

Boom-chaka-laka-boom-chaka-lacka.
--Theoden

[theoden]

running,

Thanks. You are indeed a true hottie.

Thank goodness we all live pretty far apart. Imagine if all lived closer? They would end up having to create a new website -- "I'm a lousy walk-away spouse and a cheater, but I lost my decent, faithful spouse to a Divorce Busting hottie."

--Theoden

[runningoutoftime]

Hummmm did you lift that conversation out of some DBing book?

Theo, you truly are a charmer...

Actually, if we all lived closer I think it would be blast to take a big group of the DBing women out shopping (Abercrombie and Victoria's Secret!), getting makeovers and then going out for Chocolate Martinis and a bit of guy watching (hey, even though I'm in piecing I can still be sort of a "big sister" just kind of overseeing things!!!!).

[Heartbroken]

Glad to see everyone having so much fun in my thread! Honestly this helped me immensely this AM.

I have been very down as of last night - wanted to do the 'drive by' his apt since OW doesn't have her kids on Wed. eves and H was off from us for the night. Not even sure they are still seeing each other - H says no (what can you believe) - but my mind was just reeling with 'what ifs' last night. I did not go snooping! Why do I even care if he is with OW - WHY can't I just let it all go for real??? Life does not feel to grand right now...

I did weight lift last night - that helped. I know I just need to focus on me and the kids but it gets so hard sometimes. Need to get back into the present moment and keep my PMA going!

Thanks for making DB'ing lighter ROOT and Theo - you are good people!!

HB

[lovelyolive]

Hi HB - Things do sound tough for you right now but I can tell that you are a very strong woman. I've always loved ROOT's advice and it works like a charm every time - if not on your H, getting attention from other guys sure doesn't hurt! Size 4, huh? I haven't been that since I was about 14!! WOW! Keep it up. I think I'm becoming inspired to work out again..

Ya'll helped my PMA today too