I haven't been as active but I'm checking on people.
Amy, how long do you think I can go with my WAW without any contact? Doesn't that become detrimental at some point? I mean NO contact, nada, zip, zilch, zero. lemme know if you have any ideas.
thanks!
And you can come on back anytime
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Seems new doors are opening for you, and with your strength guided by God, you'll walk through them and over your fears and to something brighter.
You're the one that always reminds us that things get tougher right when something big is about to break through.
Now, your H is refusing you to drive him to the hospital...something you worked hard to get him to consent to, and meant a lot in the pattern of your becoming closer. And here it's tossed.
Right on the heels of you wanting to talk to MIL. And, you understand where she is coming from. So, with the truth, a peaceful and kind heart, what do you have to lose? You are not the same Amy from years ago. You are different. Maybe this is the test to see how much YOU believe that. If you can face this woman, her wrath (rightful as it may be) and be the new you, who is woman enough to be honest, loves her son, and wants only the best for everyone.
Doesn't matter what she thinks in the end. It's what you think of yourself for facing it.
Another test, another hurdle, and I know you're gonna do well with a clear heart.
Maybe this will be the next door pushed down for new openings...kinda like moving out...hard at first, but without it, all the good things would not have come.
JR needs to clean out his mailbox...i can't send an Private msgs to him. *shakes fist*
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Seems new doors are opening for you, and with your strength guided by God, you'll walk through them and over your fears and to something brighter.
You're the one that always reminds us that things get tougher right when something big is about to break through.
Now, your H is refusing you to drive him to the hospital...something you worked hard to get him to consent to, and meant a lot in the pattern of your becoming closer. And here it's tossed.
Right on the heels of you wanting to talk to MIL. And, you understand where she is coming from. So, with the truth, a peaceful and kind heart, what do you have to lose? You are not the same Amy from years ago. You are different. Maybe this is the test to see how much YOU believe that. If you can face this woman, her wrath (rightful as it may be) and be the new you, who is woman enough to be honest, loves her son, and wants only the best for everyone.
Doesn't matter what she thinks in the end. It's what you think of yourself for facing it.
Another test, another hurdle, and I know you're gonna do well with a clear heart.
Maybe this will be the next door pushed down for new openings...kinda like moving out...hard at first, but without it, all the good things would not have come.
Good luck!
Thank you for that post, Always. You are such a sweetheart and I appreciate it.
I'm doing fine and am rather sidetracked at the moment. I'm going to find my place next week helping my husband, too.
Betcha!
Hey, NMHurting~
NO ONE CAN SEND PRIVATE MESSAGES.
I don't understand why they leave it so everyone thinks we can.
We've never been able to as long as I have been here.
Well see Amy. That's why we need you around more often to keep the less informed like me on track.
Well if anybody is curious. I updated my MYSPACE page on my profile with pictures of my family. Everybody can now see what I'm fighting hard to save.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
