Well, I guess the point is, you can analyze all you like but it will not change her behaviors, feelings, actions, etc. Nothing will change her but her. Now you can become a lot more attractive to her. She's interested in what you can offer in the way of emotional support and sensitivity. She also wants a little excitement. Women get bored just like men. Be a little adventuresome, even if she's not with you, make her wonder what you're doing! Ger her interested in you again. You constantly worrying or analyzing or talking to her about the OM won't do a thing for her. You have to exude confidence and stability while exhibiting a bit of excitement too.
Think positive, and you'll be fine. Have you gone to a DB coach? Call and see if you can get Jodi, she's really good, you'll be amazed.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...