catfan....sounds like the rollercoaster ride is a tough one...hang in there bro....im 7 weeks post-D and i am still on the ride....(see my thread)....from reading your update i say roll w the punches and try to be her friend...you never know when/if she will have her ephinany...as far as the friends thing goes that is tough..ive encountered the same thing...the new "friends" tell them anything they WANT to hear...not like REAL friends that you know for years and years and they tell it like it is...this is tough to overcome...my WAXW still hangs on the last word anyone tells her as long as it fits the rationalization and justification of what she is doing.....hang in there catfan!...you deserve happiness and i predict it will come to you soon...BIG TUNA


ME-47
WAW-42
S16
S8
bomb 5/5/06
separated 10/6/06
D 4/18/07