Hmm, it seems like you have the bases covered. That is an excellent goal and your efforts seem solid.
The only thing I can think of it, your H went to another woman because he wasn't getting something from you - that's the theory, anyway. Any idea what it is? It's probably not physical touch, right? What was the other LL he speaks? Maybe words of affirmation? I know that ended up being a biggie for me, even though physical touch is my #1. Funny thing is I didn't even realize WOA was important to me...until I didn't have it the last 3 years.
Keep working it, I don't know if anyone else here has such detailed goals and tactics - so congrats on that.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
