I think you know the answer to your own questions. You can't look at these things as set-backs necessarilly. You also can't think that just because things have been good for a few weeks, that everything is solved. I know you don't think that. Continue on the path you're on. Continue to make yourself attractive to her - the old marriage is dead, you have to continue to show her for her to believe it. And she will.
You know what you have to do, relax, keep DBing, act "as if," agree with her. Do the 180's (without being a doormat - but it doesn't seem like she's treating you like a doormat. Go to http://www.makingherhappy.com and read some of David Cunningham's stuff. If you can but the eBook, do it. The communication skills he shares are pure gold. Try it out, it def can't hurt. I've enjoyed the reading, as I see my old self square in the wuss role he talks about, and we have to be MEN. Women are attracted to men not wusses. Don't think that it doesn't fit into DBing either, it can and does. DBing is about timing and sensivity, Makingherhappy adds some of the man to woman communication skills that we're all missing. See what happens...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
