And actually, you have some complications compared to my sitch. At least my W has never really used the kids or messed with them vis-a-vis the D. Sometimes she yells at them too much but she has really tried to keep them out of it. I would not even know what to do if my W was doing what yours is to the kids. I really feel for ya.
built4speed My Saga "How others deal with the gifts you've given is not your decision, but theirs." - Richard Bach
