[quote=JR2007 NM, do you golf? You could be our 4th in PHX at the end of the month (or whenever we get together) [/quote]
Naw I don't...plus the funds thing. I have to move out in 60 days from the house I'm in so trying to save up first, last, deposit. You know the drill.
My best friend lives in Gilbert...I need to get out there at some point.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Hey, how long will a WAW wait and not say a word to her LBH? I doubt I'm setting any records here, but I really thought I would have heard something by now???
Oh well, off to have some fun! Ciao!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Hey, how long will a WAW wait and not say a word to her LBH? I doubt I'm setting any records here, but I really thought I would have heard something by now???
Oh well, off to have some fun! Ciao!
I bet he cannot wait either.
What do you want to hear ?? I think you would rather hear nothing than a phone call or a piece of mail about something you do not want.
If you really want something in the mail though, I can have a postcard sent from Hawaii to you. I have friends that live in nice places, they just never invite me to visit.
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M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I dunno, it just seems like she'd want to talk about SOMETHING. If I get something I don't want, at least I may get to talke to her, right? Whatever, I don't know. I'm OK with it, but it just seems like the longer we go not talking, the easier it is for her to just stay away, wouldn't you think?
We'll see.
Where are your friends in HI?
Oh, and Gilbert is packed now, you must not have been there for a looooong time.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
I dunno, it just seems like she'd want to talk about SOMETHING. If I get something I don't want, at least I may get to talke to her, right? Whatever, I don't know. I'm OK with it, but it just seems like the longer we go not talking, the easier it is for her to just stay away, wouldn't you think?
We'll see.
Where are your friends in HI?
Oh, and Gilbert is packed now, you must not have been there for a looooong time.
Yes I would agree that the longer it goes on, seperation and for you not being able to talk. Everyone else seems to say that is what they need to go thru. So I really have no clue.
Friends are actually my first W's family, they still like me.
I moved from Prescott AZ back in early '87. Haven't been back since.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Well, I'm going to give it about another week before I try to push the envelope a little. I now have to go 7 days without seeing S4. There's something not right about that. I can be patient, but he shouldn't be made to suffer.
I'm happy to give my W all the space and time she needs, but she doesn't need to keep my S from me, right? I'm not mad, I just think he needs to spend more time with me so he knows I didn't abandon him.
I am definitely taking some time off this weekend. I may even drive down to Vegas. Anything to clear my mind for a while - I really need it, I'm just getting exhausted with everything going on - phew!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Why do you not get to see S for a week, did I miss something earlier. I completely agree, your S should not be part of the mix, you should be able to have amble time to be with him.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Buddhism rules!
