Thanks JR an NM.

You are right, I need to stop discussing these things for now. I really need to figure some things out on my own. I need to stop this M talk.

He wants to be "friends", I said ok, but we need to stop discussing our M and past issues and just talk about normal things....

He said, never mind then, you are just a child support cheque for me, we can't be friends. I am now leaving this to him. He wants to call, he wants to talk, he can call me.