I wish I had some advice. I do have prayers though and a hug. Has your H been to see a counselor before? I know it makes you feel better temporarily but yelling at the ow will make you feel crappy long term. Can you block her calls? How long has he been with current ow?
try to take some deep breaths and see what happens with counselor
What do you want?
Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
