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Mine had 2 prescriptions last I knew. One was too weak but she took it every day for some reason. The other was much stronger but she refused to take it because she didn't want to get addicted. I told her to go back and get something else but that made her mad.

Early in our marriage, she told me she had been on anti-depressants and I told her she shouldn't need them, that she could control it herself if she did certain things. That started the "her not being able to talk to me" thing. Not very nice on my part...


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Mine had 2 prescriptions last I knew. One was too weak but she took it every day for some reason. The other was much stronger but she refused to take it because she didn't want to get addicted. I told her to go back and get something else but that made her mad.

Early in our marriage, she told me she had been on anti-depressants and I told her she shouldn't need them, that she could control it herself if she did certain things. That started the "her not being able to talk to me" thing. Not very nice on my part...


I do not believe either of those RX's are addicting. I have always been on her side when it came to appointments and such. Not once have I ever suggested changing RX's or dosages. That was between her and doctor. Just always hoping that the two of them would get the right one.


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Which was the right way to approach it. I was trying to show her how strong she was, instead I made her feel weak because she COULDN'T regulate her moods herself as well as with medication.

I would kill for a time machine right about now


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I wish just for a month I could see what my W was going thru and in taking seeing what is was like when she missed a pill. Even now I cannot truly comprehend what it must be like.


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Honestly JR, this is not to make you jealous. It actually just keeps me confused...But in a good way.

W just called from work, and since I am picking up her meds, she asked if I wanted to BBQ and go swimming with her and S. I keep wondering why we are seperated since other than sleeping over I feel like I live with her.


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It's cool, I'm genuinely happy for you! Just keep it relaxed, no pressure on the W.

Have fun man! When you're back home, ask your W if she'll call mine.


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I would if I could.
With all the medications they make, think they will ever come up with something for this ?


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Yeah, it's called listening, paying attention, and not being selfish. SELF medication.

TTYL


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lol, I didn't want to fall to page 3.


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Getting proud of your threads are you?

Mine is probably going to get locked today. I'll come in here regularly today and get yours locked too. ;\)


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