Here's the deal, she's looking for something she didn't think she could get from you. I guarantee he is just being nice, and listening, and doing some things she thinks you weren't doing. It's a distraction because for some odd reason he looks attractive right now. It's not long-lasting.
That's why you have to get do the things she needs, and it has to be real, you can not fake it - she'll see right through that.
As I've been told in my thread today, give her space and time, and show her the 180's from a distance and she'll see you in a different light. We have to remember this isn't on our time, she's in control...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
