For us - H said he hurts when he sees me and it brings it all to the forefront again. You may not be what she needs to see right now...sorry.

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok