I'm so not enlightened. I can't figure my H out but I've stopped trying for the most part. It's hard. Some days suck. Everyone tells me to be patient and give him time - so...there you go. Be patient and give her time. She needs time to heal from the issues.
And talking it out and being with me even just a little bit won't help? Pushing the envelope just a little to get her to see me, won't help? Again, just curious. It seems like a little "me time" couldn't hurt, but then again, I'm here with you guys, so...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...