I'm so not enlightened. I can't figure my H out but I've stopped trying for the most part. It's hard. Some days suck. Everyone tells me to be patient and give him time - so...there you go. Be patient and give her time. She needs time to heal from the issues.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
