Well the bonus side to this is that he's unemployed. But he spends a lot of time around here because he's bored and has nothing else since he left his wife behind.
How's this for a 180...I just sent her a legitimate job lead (as in a favor to me kind of thing) for him.
Everytime we talk about it she just gets defensive about it. So it has become basically a non-talk subject. Doesn't mean that it doesn't feel like a screwdriver in my heart.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."