I really don't try to argue, it just seems to happen. We only argue about the relationship of course. It is so hard to remain positive when you feel like your life is out of control. Is there any hope left in my relationship? If he is taking it one day at a time and not really thinking about the relationship, then can my behavior get him to stop and think about coming home. He denies that there is someone else and if there was he would tell me becuase it would make things easier. He is currently staying with his mom and she wants us to stay together. Can she hellp him to see that the relationship is worth fixing when he feels that for the past 2 years he has been unhappy and I have been lazy and he believes that he has tried and we are jsut not meant to be together anymore. I am just so confused and all I can think about is this relationship. The angry part of me wants to pack up all of his stuff and make this difficult for him. WHat I mena is all of his toys (motorcyle) is here at the house and when I am at work he comes over and uses the computer and rides his motorcyle. I also let him come over here to see our daughter due to his time being so limited. The emotional part of me wants to cry and find a way for him to come home. I have been through this in the past and he eventually left for good and I can't help but think of it happening again.
