Always, nice post! I would like to add that its very important for anyone to feel healthy and secure, no matter the situation. I man that has been left by an MLC female has a lot of questions and doubts about himself. Its very natural to feel this way, as does a woman who has a MLC husband. We have to recognize that the MLCer has the problem, and until they get it resolved, it won't change. Tough to accept that though, its human nature to want to fix things!