Stop arguing? I know arguing was a stake in the heart of our marriage the last 6 months. If your spouse thinks every time you talk, it's going to be an argument, they'll quit talking and start thinking, and all those thoughts are negtive. Give him something positive to think about by just being friendly, and talking things though in a calm manner. It's challenging, but it works and then you get used to acting like that and BOOM you've just created a 180 for yourself and it benefits your spouse too. Try that.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
