Hi Dienne. You've moved! Try not to dwell on OW too much, Dienne, as your situation has many positives. My W said she never loved OM, but that didn't stop her from having an A. If she had, I think things would have been more difficult in my situation...same as with yours...
Quote: He says is committed to me and the children, although the word that keeps coming up is 'his responsibility'. He doesn't want to move all his things back here yet, as he wants to be more sure. Sounds like a little lack of commitment and a whole lot of unsurity to me. Be patient and watch the small steps I guess.
What's important is that your H is at home, working on things with his family. He's gun-shy because of how your R has been in the past, and he wants to make sure things are going in the right direction...hence the reason he's likely not moved his stuff back in. Give him some time and continue to DB, showing him your changes.
It is great that he's acknowledged the fact that he can "love" you again. This is significant. I don't think my W feels this way, but she tries nonetheless. It's just something that will take time. For you, I pray it won't take too much time.
In any case, I'm sorry I didn't come check in on you sooner. Just try and take heart that he's home and with you and the children. My gut tells me that, in time, you guys will be just fine.
