When's it my turn?

[Rob1231]

So, essentially MC told him that if the M was important to him, that's what he'd place his time/energy on instead of work. And, though I didn't drop the bomb (It was sooooo tempting after you posted that, Rob!), I think H got the big hint that he's f&cking up and I want more from my M.

Hi SD, You did exactly what I had in mind. Wasn't advocating a Big Bomb ala "ILYBINILYW, We're Done", but a Little Bomb that says "Wake Up, Dummy - YOU ARE BLOWING IT RIGHT NOW." I hope he gets the message and things start to improve soon. Remember, now you are the Master and he is the Learner, so don't be afraid to share some of your hard-fought wisdom about growing and GALing and PMAing where it's appropriate.