OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............

[andyv]

WAW,

Hopefully in a perfect world this will happen.

Still hopeful though.

[andyv]

Well, I picked up DD from after school care this evening. Helped her with her homework, fed her and got her ready for soccer training.

W got home at around 5:45pm, and was pleasant, and somewhat responsive to DD. As if nothing had happened (re phone call with her good news about D papers coming through, RE agent organised for Thu etc).

I asked her if she could come home earlier from Kick Boxing (hopefully around 8:15pm) because I have to be at work at 9pm. She said yes, and seemed quite pleasant.

I am hoping that this new found happiness may last somewhat, and I can buy some time with house (the market is bad at the moment and may take a while to sell) and hopefully she will procrastinate on the D papers.

I have to lay low, so extremely low from now. Cont GALing and DRing and cease any communications with wife unless about DD or pleasant things.

[Dr LOve]

Hey Andy
Can’t write much late for work. But just wanted to say Hey.
Have you ever watched a flock of birds? They are flying in one directions and then for no apparent reason the turn and start flying in another direction. Then again turn and fly in the opposite direction. My point is just when you think the end is near or you think everything is going great those damn birds change directions. Only one bird changes direction but the rest just follow.
What I am trying to say is go with the flow. Don’t worry about selling the house until you have buyers on your door step.
Detach, be there for your D. smile and wave. I think your W is doing thing to get reactions out of ya. Smile and wave.

Husband

[EmtnRllrCstr]

Andy,

Sorry to hear that we are basically in the same spot rightnow. Hopefully in the end things will workout the way we are hoping for it to. Either way it goes for us we will be better people for going through all of this mess. It sucks that is the way it had to go for us to start seeing/realizing how great of people we truely are. You are in my prayers brother. Hang in there, I am there right along with you.

Take care,
ERC

[Dr LOve]

Andyv

How ya doing mate? I still have not looked at the phone log. I throwing some good positive MOJO your way

Husband

[andyv]

Husband,

I hope so. She is still so angry at me for involving her family. I only got a few hours sleep this morning (finished work at 4:30am, got up around 7 finally up at 9:30am).

I start again tonight at 10pm, so I wil take DD out for a bit after school (whilst the RE agent is at our home with W). Seeing the RE agent would shatter DD, as she loves our new home and her room.

I am hoping that like you said, it does take time. I really have to stop discussing things with her family (BIL talks to me, and I say things in confidence, and now I hear that everything got back to W, regardless of his word).

[andyv]

ERC,

It is a strange co-incidence how so many of our sitches are alike. But it will make us much better partners in the future, regardless of who we are with.

[Dr LOve]

Hey Andy

Not only are we in different time zones I start my job at 4:00 am
First blast of MOJO SENT TO YA. It may be hard but remember beside marriage I am a strong believer in karma what goes around comes around. Maybe your OM will become impudent or get some strange illness and his tally whacker will fall off.

Here is your MOJO for your strength MMMMOOOOOJJJOOO
Here are you MOJO for your marriage MMMMOOOOOJJOOO
And here is the mojo so his tally whacker falls off MMMMMMMOOOOOOOJJJJJJJOOOOOO
Aren’t there some aborigines there that might be able to put a spell on the OM?

((((((((Smile)))))))) Be there for your D




Husband

[andyv]

Thx Husband,

I will commence my MOJO meditation shortly. Do you know how hard it is to find an aborigine in Sydney

I really don't have anything more to report, other than W setting the house alarm when she left to go to work this morn. I got up at around 9am to go to the toilet, and tripped the alarm. I had to run downstairs to de-activate it, no wonder I couldn't get any sleep.

She was fairly pleasant when she got home from Kick Boxing. My sister rang me a few minutes ago (my rock) and she has organised an appointment to see a lawyer (best in Sydney).

She is such a positive influence on me, however she is pushing in a different direction and want's me to divorce and move on. She sort of saw things coming (R with OM, papers etc) early on when I got back from my business trip.

She is very Corporate, so I guess her views would be very "business like".

I think it would be the best thing now (not to cease DBing) but to protect myself in regards to DD and my financial sitch. I sort of delayed it as long as I could, thinking that this would sort itself out.

Husband, I also believe in Karma. I just hope all of it goes to him and not W.

[andyv]

I got back from the mall with DD (W had Estate agent over this evening).

Wife has not mentioned anything, she made me coffee and has been extra nice. I won't even try to anylize this as there are too many variables.

She also mentioned that her best friend was really looking forward to going to the footy next Wed night with me and my friends. My W seemed a little suprised that her best friend (24 y/o hottie) was so keen to go. She has even stood up my W as her kick boxing partner (Mon and Wed nights), due to prefering to go to the game.

But I must admit, this is probably the biggest Rugby League game in Australia, and it is a one off this year (State Of Origin). I think I might paint my face blue (our states colour), orrrrr maybe not.

My PMA is def on a high, cant wait for the game.