hi, to answer your question yes, I'm making it, you never stop working so I won't claim I've made it. But my H is almost 99% himself again and I can say we are happy w/our M. There is always room for improvement but from this time around last year when he'd bundle up himself on the sheets and move to the edge of the bed away from me..we've come a long way.
Does she want to prove she can have a live on her own? what's the point?
Life is too short not to speak up and do what you truly want to do. If you want to join her tell her so, that you want her in your life, that you want to rebuild your M and being appart isn't going to help (at least I dont' think it will, without daily interaction, how can you learn to love/know each other?) I'm no one to tell you what to do, I know you are staying so your son finishes high school, but at what cost? If she wants some time alone, all summer would be plenty and enough, then come the school year your son can start at the new state.
If your able to see your C, do so, it seemed to be helping and I dont' see a reason to stop now.
I wish you the best, and I hear you, piecing is as hard as being separated somedays.
Yes I do missed GH and TL too, they helped me so much in my trial by fire.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
