Quoting raindeer: What I can do is try to find out what were the problems that made her strayed, and try to correct them. It hurts when the person you love the most in the world betrayed you. However, you need to work on yourself and develop your PMA. Think carefully before you take an action. Does the action will bring you closer to your H or not. If not, do not do it. Affair is like addiction to drug, it is not easy to free up from that addiction. Without strong will, incentive and remedy, it could take a long long time.
Raindeer -- These are inspirational words. Thank you so much for posting them.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
