C'mon, Sol. She knows exactly what she is doing! She's not a moron. Now you have to decide what you are going to do. If you must blow the whistle, then do so but take anger out of the equation. You're now blaming all your your actions in this sitch on the immigration issue, your choice to be and use anger is yours alone. It will prevent you from making good, well thought out decisions. As others have said, one day you are saving your M and then the next,when W pisses you off, you are going to file. That is anger. Today you are back to being concerned about her welfare, what tomorrow? Be your own best friend here, Sol. do what you believe to be right for yourself and your children. It's tough, I know but you MUST make a good, thought out decision. Keep us posted!
