ERC, I just wanted to stop by and say that I think you are handling this incredibly. You are taking the highroad and that will always be the best route! I am in a similar sitch except after years of this crap I am pulling the plug. My W's A and unwillingness to work on our M has brought me to this point. But, I like yourself, will not lower myself to go around bad mouthing her and exposing what she has done, I have told her this. She will have to live with her choices and the damage it will do to our family and I have to live with the choices I make. I want to travel the highroad and always be able to look at myself and say "I was honourable". All the best to you and your family through this time.
