I'm new to this place, however, have spent a little time over at Newcomers. Here's some background...
Married for almost 4 years, been with H for almost 13 years, have a 2 year old son and a baby due in 2 months. H left in September saying he did not love me anymore and could not see any way forward for our relationship. Lots of arguments during that time. I got DR book some time in Nov/Dec, I think, and started DBing. In Nov, H says he would return home to try again. H sends me a text message in error that should have been sent to OW, thanking her for something and ending it with Love H. All goes crazy - I completely blow up (started DBing after this). H finally gives me OW's number and I call her and have a long calm chat - she confirms there is nothing going on - I believe her at the time - still no proof to this day that anything happened. H changes his mind and says he is not coming back home. My DBing works and H returns home for Christmas, no word that he is staying. H is still here. I am haunted by a bad dream of him and OW.
