W is still going full steam with this and getting her sister to start moving. W told me 2 days ago that the petition for bringing a fiance was approved, and SIL already has her passport.
This morning W was more calm that yesterday, and not bitching at me like she was. I can almost hear the violin music when she told me to "have a nice day".........I just ignored her and left for work.
She is in a "happier mood" because she is getting what she wants.... 1) helping her sister. 2) keeping OM close. 3) using and appeasing me to make this happen.
Even when she was talking D a while back, she told me that we should D but for me to still live in the house (so I can continue to support her in a place to live).....she uses our duaghter as an excuse so I would see her everyday.
One time she told me (I don't know if she was serious or being sarcastic) that we should D and I should marry one of her other sisters to help them. She obviously doesn't see us as being a "married couple"........or just a couple. We are simply 2 people living under the same roof.....and it seems that W will throw a bone to me every so often (ie: sex, cook, fix the house, being nice....etc).....
So is there really light at the end? Not in our M - and not at this time.......W is really "out there", with this immigration fraud looming over my roof.....she is using our home address for all of her correspondence....which pisses me off......
I know that we can be civil...and I would prefer for us to be civil if we were separated. I am seeking legal advice and telling all. Then I will have my counseling session (by myself) and I will tell all again. Right now, I am telling everyone......and I have told W, but I will tell her again......and show her the new laws that she will just ignore.
There is no "saving my M" right now......but I will go dark for my own sake and my daughter's.
Last edited by sol1696; 06/06/0712:37 PM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
