I have just been catching up on your thread. I am so sorry that you are having to go through this - it is painful and I do know how painful. But it sounds to me like you are keeping strong, and I'm so glad that you are getting good support both here and elsewhere. You know whatever the outcome that you are doing the right thing and that will be clear in the end. I pray Mrs Choc will see sense, but it will no doubt take time. I like your analogy of the addict - it makes sense.
Just wanted to check in and give you a pat on the back and let you know you are in my thoughts.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
