Hb, yes, the advice from ROOT is so good. I remember making an extra effort being a "good mom" with the kids (especially when he is around) when truly, the kids were not my top priority then!!. And I tried (although not too successfully) to at least empathesize with whatever he says. I may not agree, but I have learnt to at least agree with what he feels.
You are doing good.


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?