Wife gone...Is there hope

[strange]

Hi guys it's nice that you have taken the time to reply with your thoughts, thankyou for that..

You seem to have it better together than any other 1st timer I've seen in my short time

Thankyou, but i believe thats only because i have had 6 weeks to try & figure this out prior to finding this place..Which i may add, i'm glad i have found.

my experience has been ups and downs, good days and bad days, so brace yourself.

Although my bad days are less frequent i do still get them, it seems to come in waves & all the positive feelings that i have seem to be replaced with negitve ones. I get feelings of sadness, hurt & guilt.
What i don't seem to get now is the needing of my W, I want her, but i feel there is a difference in "need & want".

Hi strange -- I too am sorry that you find yourself here. Your sitch sounds very similar to my own so I have a pretty good idea of how you might be feeling.

I'm sorry that your's is like mine, it's terrible. But in the short time i have been here it appears it's a great place to find help & understanding.