Yes, I understand where you are coming from. The last time I spoke to W about R (during a backslide a few weeks ago), I told her that I would forgive and forget everything that has happended, even PA with OM. She look up quickly and responded "Yeah right".
This was an MLC get out clause for her to return. But the more I think about it, the more I wonder if I would renege on that offer if she took it.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
