Yes, I think that is the secret. In the end everything will be fine, whether it is together or not.
And WAW, I hope we can ride this thing out, I will ride "shotgun" with you, and we will both see it through.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."