I too was my wife's first and only physical encounter. Unfortunately I truly believe that ended this year w/ OM. I don't want you to think your wife is capable of it too. But my wife was a devout catholic, strong family and devoted mom. An e-mail I found stated they had a wonderful time spending the night together in a hotel. I don't think they were just talking.
I believe our wives are trying to relive their youth they believe they missed out on w/ us. Their "experimentation". I only hope for both our sakes it ends w/ only one OM and not a dozen. Everyone is telling me that what they are doing is living a fantasy that won't last. I hope they're right.
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470