ATGB,

How are things with you at the moment?

I thought I had detached, and was GALing, but the thought of selling the house, moving, signing papers etc, just got me down again. All this lumped via a phone call today with W. She could have told me tonight.

I was feeling great this weekend, as soon as W see's that she knees me in the gut.

After our convo, I still sense that she is furious with me (in regards to "making her" admit to the R with OM). I sort of tricked her into admitting it.

But thanks for your advice, I can always give good advice, but seldom do I practice what I preach (for this sitch anyway).


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."