Regarding the wedding, I am guilty of snooping e-mails. This was before I knew how much it hurts to find out the truth. You are correct, the less you know the better.
I've spoken to a few friends and many have stories of people coming to their senses after separation(and experimentation). I pray your wife comes to her senses during this time and realizes the good thing she has w/ you. My employee even told me of her uncle taking back his wife after 16 yrs apart and each marrying another person. The wife was to blame for going on a terrible MLC. But they are on the mend. Happy endings do occur. Keep DBing.
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470